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Commit to the relationship (2)

6th Jun, 2023


Commit to the relationship (2)


'The two shall become one." Mt 19:5 NKJV


The word commit means "to bind, or obligate, or pledge." And for some of us, it evokes pictures of servitude, restraints, and the loss of our freedom. In other words, it frightens us. 


Today as women become more economically empowered, some of them have also become more reluctant to commit to a relationship in which the Bible says the husband is called to be a leader in the home (See Eph 5:22-24).


But it's typically the man, however, who desires to keep the relationship fluid and flexible so he can use his stay-or-leave option whenever he wants. The partner desiring the commitment finds such a relationship frustrating and unfulfilling. So, what should you do if you're reluctant to commit to the relationship? 


Two things: 

(1) Be honest with yourself about your fears, feelings, and motivations.  David said, "You desire truth in the inward parts, and in the hidden part You will make me to know wisdom" (Ps 51:6 NKJV). Notice, wisdom comes from being honest about what is going on inside you. What are your memories of your parents' marriage and how it affected you? Have you observed similar patterns of behavior on your own part or that of your potential mate when it comes to dealing with relationships?


(2) Admit the role you may have played, even as an enabler of poor behavior, in the collapse of a former relationship.  Have you changed now? Are you willing to? If so, then here is God's promise to you of a better future: "Do not remember the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing" (Isa 43:18-19 NKJV).


Wisdom comes from being honest.


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